Miss you / Jackie (old friend/classmate )
Hey Becky. It's been over two years since your passing and we all still miss you down here. It's been a rough couple of days. But I know with you and my other two guardian angels Nick and Amanda looking down on me, things will get better in time.
2 years ago Becky disappeared from her room, her hotel and our lives forever. Her family and friends searched for her, hoping against hope that she was ok, but it was not to be. Her self-chosen death has made us aware of the ungodly stresses and horrors facing young adults today and how when it gets to be too much to bear, kids make choices that are unbearable. This time last year I commented that over 25,000 visits had been made to this site; a year later this site continues to offer comfort and hope and a place to just be with Becky, and that's a good thing. I come back to it, read the comments left by her friends and families, and even complete strangers who have found themselves profoundly affected by the words and comments of those who were a part of Becky's circle of influence. I miss this lovely, sweet, bright, wonderful young woman. Like most of you, I think of her often, of what she could have done, what she could have been. I am glad that my small efforts in setting up and maintaining this site have helped her family and friends get through just one more day, a day at a time. Becky, you are missed, so missed. Pray for us all. Love, Mimi Morrow
always thinking about you / Wendi Haldeman (aunt)Read >>
always thinking about you / Wendi Haldeman (aunt)
It's been two long years since we lost Becky. I think about her every day and all the people here who love and miss her so much. She has had such a profound effect on so many lives. Take care of each other and let people know how you feel about them. we all miss you Becky. love, aunt wendi Close
Nightmare/ Shaunna
It still feels like a nightmare that I'm just waiting to be woken up from. I'm just waiting to have you call me bugging me to sign up for rugby or going to say that ur having another new years eve party again and your gonna show me how to make your home made pizza bagels again. Your mom will leave us a bottle of sparkling apple cider like she did before and me you and katey will have our dance contest again. I pray to God that I will never lose those memories because even though your gone, you still continue to make me laugh when I think back on all the times we had. <3 love you so much baby Close
Pictures/ Randi Jefferys
I sit here at my desk at 9:30am, and when I look up, I see you. I have a picture of you on my desk at work. You are just a little girl in the pic, and you are standing with your sister, you both are wearing matching yellow dresses. This is my favorite picture of you. You have the best smile. I loved to babysit you and your sister, you two were my favorite girls. Remember that goldfish I gave you? It just makes me smile to remember those great times. Becky, sweetheart, you are missed so much more than you'll ever know. Close
New Years Eve / Mimi Morrow (Family Friend )Read >>
New Years Eve / Mimi Morrow (Family Friend )
I woke up this morning knowing I had to check here first, and I was visitor 47,911. It seemed apt that the 911 was there, because of the association with the pain so many have felt over that day, and the pain still felt with your not being here. It's New Years Eve, the time when we think about what was good about the past year, what was bad, and what we'd like to do better next year. I think of your mom every day just about, thinking about how she copes minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, and I see your sister at B&N and she's such a sweetheart. I stop by Newtown when I take my Toby to the vets (3x this past week!) and see all the tributes and memories left by people who miss you so. It's quiet in that cemetery, but I feel you are surrounded by warm thoughts and so much love. It is an honor to continue to maintain this website, to know that there is a place where friends can go and think about you and write to you. Maybe someday we can come here and smile and not cry. Happy New Years Sweetheart, from Mimi and Randi and Kate. Close
to Becky / Diane Taylor (friend from POS )
Dearest Becky, what a truely gorgeous girl you are, inside as well as outside. Send your mom lots of love and kisses for this New Year. Prayerfully 2007 will be ever so much better for all of us. Blessings, Diane mom of Paul Close
Forever/ J.R. (friend)
What brings me to this website several times a week? It was my daughter who was Becky's friend, not me. But I find myself staring at her pictures and feeling the hurt of a father and mother. I pray to our Lord to watch over Becky till we all join her. My time on earth will remember Becky FOREVER. I only ask her as a parent of one of her friends to forgive us as adults that were to blind to see, and deaf to hear. We as adults must always be in contact with our Beckys. Give peace to the entire Marseglia family, Lord I pray. Close
missing you / Valerie Cecconi (friend)
Everytime I come here to leave you a message, I end up reading what everyone else has to say to you. It hurts so much knowing that your gone. I have a few pictures of you pinned to a bulletin board in my room, I have to look at them everyday. It just hurts knowin that Jr. year we didn't hang out much, but we actually had plans for when you got back from Florida. I regret that so much! I keep replaying us sitting in the gym at school, talking about what we were going to do when you got back. It sucks. I think about you everyday beck. Ill never get over it. Miss you terribly!!! Love. Close
becky/ Jen Esparra (friend)
Beckys beautiful smile had brighten the world. Her beauty and intelligents was so unique. She understood people as if she were them. She alwayz will be well knowned and loved. and i will alwayz love becky with all my hart and soul... Close
where do i even begin? first of all college is going so well i couldn't ask for better people to become my friends my first year of college. i met this guyand he's amazing. he's 24 and really smart! we met in math class (nothing special) he's an amazing kid. yesterday i hung out with him for only a short time and we were holding hands while i was driving so i thought that we were back together.
wow.. high school is not amazing what so ever! I can see all the pressure that is put on you up there! The teachers either expect too much or too little of you and they just don't seem to care! The lady who was your class advisor, Ms. Harris, is the best though! She's the only on at that school that seems to care! I think that if she was not my teacher, i would go crazy. It feels like you are walking through Hell everyday. I miss sandburg a lot. The teachers were nice and fun to be around where most of my teachers could care less about you. The hallways are bad.. people think they are better than everyone else.. hopefully it gets better but at this point in time, i'm ready to graduate!
Keep watching over everyone becky! We all miss you!
Forever on my mind / Dave Hettel (Friend)
Beck, I miss you a lot... I find myself still shedding a tear or two everytime I visit this site. I can't believe its been almost two years since you left us. I think about you every day. Andrea and I talk about you almost every time we talk to eachother (which is pretty much every day). If you were in college with us right now I know you'd be doing amazing things. I could go on right now and talk about the amazing experiences that we've had together, and we had a lot, but I think that I'm going to be selfish and keep them all to myself. I'll never forget them, and I'll never forget you darling, never. Close
so i haven't been here in a while. I'm sorry about that! I've just been so crazed about school, work, family, friends and now my boyfriend! School is going very well for me actually. I love it! So much! I'm meeting new people. It's amazing! I love all of my teachers they're so cool! Next weekend is homecoming at Neshaminy! . My parents bought a new mountain house. I guess that's all for right now. ! I love you so much! Everyday I think about you and Drew and I keep asking myself WWDD-what would drew do? and WWBD-what would becky do?
The kids and I think of Becky always. Every day her name comes up in my kids conversation. Becky had always asked me what kinds of flowers I planted in my front garden and would always say she liked the bright colorful ones. Now it is the beginning of October and my garden is still in full bloom with big bright colorful flowers. I hope she is looking down on us and enjoying them. We miss her so.
Continue smiling down on us. Keep watch over JJ, too.. he only has a few more weeks left in Iraq, and he could use all the blessings he could get. Miss you darling. <3 Close
my condolences / Sue Shields (none)
To kind of quote a song, "What a life to lose, what a bond to break." I never knew Becky, but viewing this website breaks my heart, nonetheless. What a beautiful and multi-talented young girl. So sad. My heart breaks for all of her family and friends. Sue Shields Close
I miss you like crazy now. My birthday is almost here and you're not here to celebrate it with me. I'll be 19 can you believe that! I can't! Please help me with the decisions that I have to make in these last couple weeks before I go to college. I think you know what I'm talking about. This summer has to be the most craziest summers I've ever experienced in my life. Between work, family, friends and especially BOYS! So right now I like these 2 sixteen year old boys. Joe and Mark. Joe is going to be a junior at Neshaminy High School. And Mark is going to be a junior at Council Rock South High School. I met Joe at the pool that I live by. And I met Mark at work. I was visiting work one day and yea................ Mark and I really like each other. I mean he calls me and texts me. And I do the same so......... I think he's going to buy me something for my birthday. I was just kidding when I asked him what he was getting me for my birthday so.......... I seriously don't want anything from him but I don't think that he's listening to me. I mean I really like him but my parents don't agree because of our age difference. Like how I'm legal and he's just still a child. But I keep telling my Mom that I can't help the way that I feel. And neither can he I don't think. Mark was suppose to call me last night but never did. I mean he was a his friend's party so who can blame him for not calling me........ I certainly can't. I have to go now so I'll definetely talk to you later bye!!!
Nervous!/ Staci Speece
Hey Becky! Ugh i'm not ready to go the high school anymore! One of the most important people in my life has moved away, and i'm scared that i won't be able to do anything without her! I don't know what to do without her.. she was my strength! I'm afraid high school is going to be so much pressure, and i won't have her to talk to as much! I'm happy for her with her new life, but i want her to come home! Please watch over her beck! Make sure she's doing ok!
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